ADVICE PLEASE!!I have a girl situation. I need advice/opinions outside the realm of my d-bag friends!!!?

First, if she is showing the same initiatives as you then it's pretty obvious there's an interest there. She wouldn't spend all this time with you for nothing. Plus if she's asking to go and doesn't invite others along, then that's a sure sign. Second, why do you have to kiss first to show you like her? Hold her hand, hug, etc. All those also show signs and kissing is a bit too forward to show that you like someone. Go slower and less forward as kissing like holding hands. That's a sure fire way to show her you're interested in more than friends. I had a guy kiss me right off that bat on a first date and it was just way too much to deal with and when he did that, I thought he wanted only just that and not me. Be subtle in showing her you like her, but be consistent.